Bangkok Reports

[ThatGuy68]

Most bars I wouldn't consider tipping the mamasan, but there is one exception for me. There is one gogo where I do tip the mamasan. I've known her for about 15 years now and she is well aware of which type of girls I like and what I want them to do for me in bed. Tipping her has paid off over the years. As soon as I walk in, she does what she can to get me the best girl in the place who meets my requirements in bed. Many times she has pulled a girl for me who is the best girl in the place (and many times the girl was in the back room while I was there rather than in the bar with the rest of the girls). When smoking hot girls like that do come out from the back room, they are normally jumped immediately. There have been times she has recommended a girl where I liked a different girl better, but that has been very rare.

I also have one waitress I buy drinks for at another gogo (Crazy House) simply because she brings me the most in demand girls and it facilitates things. That bar gets crowded and it's tough to get to the girls before other guys do at times.

I've had some success with tipping / buying drink for Mamasan in my two trips. I did tip / LD a couple waitresses and felt it was throwing money away. It didn't do much for me except make them a bit more helpful but ultimately just got me bugged for more drinks.

With Mamasan I think 6/10 bars it helped make good things happen and a couple of which probably wouldn't of happened.

At what's up agogo last trip it helped me take a lady I was hot after. The night before a Japanese guy beat me to the punch but upon returning the next day Mamasan made it happen even though the lady didn't seem to want to go. Usually I would of stopped it there but mamasan insisted it would be fun. She was right! It was in my top two experiences with sexy gogo girls that often produced mediocre performance. I did catch the girl looking through my backpack upon exiting bathroom but I was too educated thanks to many of you for that trick to work (everything of value in safe).

With windmill mamasans it seemed to make things a little more awesome every visit and prices became a little more flexible here. She always gives me a warm welcome upon entering. Even on my return trip she remembered me. Tipping Mamasan at windmill also produced the best 3 some I ever had or think I will ever have. She picked the two based on what I was wanting and it was un-fn-believable. Teamwork! Teamwork! I miss those girls. Not big on rimming but having one young sexy Thai giving a BBBJ and the other rimming really put me on top of the world. I think that's where I'm heading for NYE. I must have a similar experience. This time I'm doing LT for both. I'm going to end this year and bring in the new one right.

Lastly, on one of my first days in Thailand I spent a night in BKK on soi cowboy. I had two bangs from there. Crazy house and either Suzy wong's or a bar in between those two. Sorry I hit 5 or 6 that night and being a newbie I was in awe of the situation. At Suzies or one of the bars in between I tried barfining one of the dancers. She was a spinner but with a look to her that wasn't fragile. Looked like she could screw a guys brains out without blinking a eye. The waitress said she don't barfine. Bummer! As I was scoping out the others mamasan came over to introduce herself and I bought her a LD. She sat beside me and we talked and I bought her another. She ended up coming back with the dancer. Thinking they thought I was the LD ATM I said no I want to barfine. I find another lady that go. Mamasan said she go with you. She was far from a starfish. Great performance on her part. Crazy house I never even seen a mamasan. The two girls I took for 3 some pointed to a guy on the dancefloor that was just dancing like crazy. He ended up being the papasan. We had a disagreement on price for 2 ladies probably because I was a newbie getting confused but the 3 some wasn't nothing to write home about and no teamwork involved.

Were the great performers the product of the connection I made to mamasans? Or was it just coincidence? It certainly got me 2 ladies that I was hot after and seemed like weren't going to happen.

With that being said Dart and I went into Ginza before and after the Japanese guy took my eye candy temporarily at what's up. We bought mamasan and ladies drinks and maybe went a bit overboard. Mamasan loved us! After I lost my eye candy I went back for a old windmill girl that I had on previous trip that now worked at Ginza. This was a horrible decision. Not only was she not the same girl in bed. The connection to mamasan obviously had 0 impact even going overboard with it.

I believe in my limited experience it helps more times than not. Just getting a shot at aerobics with the two stunners was worth it to me even if I included all the money thrown away at the others. I obviously wouldn't argue this point against a seasoned vet but for 120 or 150 or 180 baht I believe it's worth a shot to see where it can take you.

[Mdemde]

I met her back in 2012, via ThaiFriendly, we dated a few times then spent a bit of time together. Then she dumped me! LOL.

She was 22, and I met her in Bangkok, on our first date we met at a branch of Swensens, the ice-cream parlor.

Anyway, here's a few pics.

(I'll try and post some more in a day or two.).

[Mdemde]

I have been trying this website for a few weeks. I would say it is a lot of work for not much result.

I have also tried it, and agree, it's a waste of time.

I gave it (https://finfanfan.com/) a go a few months ago, picked out about 12 girls, contacted them either via the LINE app or via phone if a phone number was given. I spoke (in Thai) with one who asked for money upfront by way of a transfer to her bank. Yeah right! LOL. No way. The others I phoned did not answer the phone or even call me back, those I tried to contact via LINE all ignore me completely. My LINE profile has my photo so they could see what I look like, and I typed using Thai script to introduce myself and asked them their name, some of the messages I sent were read, but not replied to, some of the messages I sent were not read. A complete waste of time!

[Houston Player]

Most bars I wouldn't consider tipping the mamasan, but there is one exception for me. There is one gogo where I do tip the mamasan. I've known her for about 15 years now and she is well aware of which type of girls I like and what I want them to do for me in bed. Tipping her has paid off over the years. As soon as I walk in, she does what she can to get me the best girl in the place who meets my requirements in bed. Many times she has pulled a girl for me who is the best girl in the place (and many times the girl was in the back room while I was there rather than in the bar with the rest of the girls). When smoking hot girls like that do come out from the back room, they are normally jumped immediately. There have been times she has recommended a girl where I liked a different girl better, but that has been very rare.

I also have one waitress I buy drinks for at another gogo (Crazy House) simply because she brings me the most in demand girls and it facilitates things. That bar gets crowded and it's tough to get to the girls before other guys do at times.

Bingo. That's the way I do it also. There are only a couple of mamasans who take care of me and I return the favor. The ones that do nothing for me get nothing from me.

[Smoothy]

Said it before and will say it again there is absolutely ZERO need to tip any gogo mamasan. What is she going to do? Bring a girl for you next time? I'm more than capable of getting my own girl and what are the odds the next girl mamasan brings me is someone I actually like. Listen to what Natty posted there is some very good info in his post. I was going to barfine a gogo girl one night but her insistence that I had to tip the mamasan made me change my mind. Keep in mind girls and mamasans see a tourist a mile away.

Most bars I wouldn't consider tipping the mamasan, but there is one exception for me. There is one gogo where I do tip the mamasan. I've known her for about 15 years now and she is well aware of which type of girls I like and what I want them to do for me in bed. Tipping her has paid off over the years. As soon as I walk in, she does what she can to get me the best girl in the place who meets my requirements in bed. Many times she has pulled a girl for me who is the best girl in the place (and many times the girl was in the back room while I was there rather than in the bar with the rest of the girls). When smoking hot girls like that do come out from the back room, they are normally jumped immediately. There have been times she has recommended a girl where I liked a different girl better, but that has been very rare.

I also have one waitress I buy drinks for at another gogo (Crazy House) simply because she brings me the most in demand girls and it facilitates things. That bar gets crowded and it's tough to get to the girls before other guys do at times.

[Crocodilexp]

Could any one please tell me, is Phuket is good for mongering. I am going to travel solo. If not I will plan only Bangkok and Pattaya like last trip.

No. You could get laid, but Phuket is not good compared to Bangkok or Pattaya. Selection is smaller, prices are relatively high.

In Phuket, prices are also outrageously high for some non-mongering goods (like transportation, 5-10 x more than in Bangkok), and the locals are not too friendly, only there to squeeze money form tourists.

If you just want a nice beach, I'd go to places other than Phuket too.

[Ricky81]

Friends,

Could any one please tell me, is Phuket is good for mongering. I am going to travel solo. If not I will plan only Bangkok and Pattaya like last trip. I am looking for girl friend experience like one attractive girl for like from lunch to next day morning to spend time with and multiple sessions.

[Syzygies]

I avoid SOi Cowboy, many Coyote Girl, you cannot barfine.

But my plan is to have as much as possible fun and nice time with her in 1 or 2 weeks as possible.
Of course not paying everyday 700 BF and 3000 .

The mamasan is very clever, They are checking in 1 sec if somebody wants a girl.

So, do you have some advise, how can I manage to have her for 1-2 week as less cost as possible. What amount would you paid (Girl, Club?)

Avoid Nana because has many ladyboys! LOL Cowboy does have some Coyotes that can be BFed. Try DollHouse. There are also many non-Coyotes.

Mamasan is not clever. Pestering some customers will make them leave.

"Of course" not paying 700+3000. LOL This depends on what you want from the girl. Many girls will meet you privately and can avoid the BF. Not in all cases. Some girls are so honest they would report to the bar any outside liaisons and still pay the BF. I meet girls privately to avoid BF and drinks cost and wasted time. This is for 90 minutes meet up for sex. She may take less than 3 K for a regular reliable source of income especially if outside bar hours. If she is popular and does not need it, she may not take less.

You did not say how much time you want to spend with the girl. Even a week non stop (24 hours per day) was possible at least years ago, like taking girl on a holiday. One bargirl I know well has been taken away to other countries by a guy. You have to negotiate a price with her for what is fair. She won't want your business if is going to cause her to lose money, or she doesn't like you, or she has other commitments like a baby, lives with parents, has a pimp / BF, etc. A sure daily income for a girl can be very attractive though, when normally girls have unreliable money coming in. Only the girl will know what she has to lose by taking up your offer, and therefore what amount is worthwhile. Negotiation maybe needed.

In the past I had a girl from an MP that was difficult in a way, as she would not specify how much money she needed to make from a 4 day holiday trip. Just said "was up to me" probably trusting I would pay okay At least. Possibly a different case, since the holiday would allow her to fuck less than usual and rest her body a bit.

Just try taking her each day, and ask is she up for meeting outside the bar. Pretty easy really. Just move into it gradually. Having a great time is the first priority and saving money should be 2nd priority. If save a bit, allows to meet her more often.

[XRatedBangkok]

https://finfanfan.com/.

I have been trying this website for a few weeks. I would say it is a lot of work for not much result.

Well prices are around 1500-2000 thb for a short time, far from the 3-4.000 in Cowboy, so it is rather cheap. Yes, but girls seem very picky and prefer not to deal with foreigner customer. I know because I have tried to contact same girls on Line with a Caucasian profile picture, and with a seemingly Thai. Much more answers in the latter case.

Yesterday that girl stood up on me.

https://finfanfan.com/post/minnee

She probably found it very funny to have me waiting in front of the hotel and then block me.

Freelance hookers are notoriously not reliable, but here there is one more difficulty.

[BigBangLover]

Hi and greetings from Bangkok.

Just arrived yesterday for my 2 week Thailand holiday.

In Bangkok, I like Nana Plaza with many GoGoBar inside.

Sparkys and Twisters (upstairs) my favorites there.

I avoid SOi Cowboy, many Coyote Girl, you cannot barfine.

Today I checked Butterflies and I liked it.

I barfined a girl with 700 Barfine +3000 LT.

She was not one of the dancers, just sitting outside and doing promotion.

It was already 0 o clock. I guess, therefore for the Mamasan was no difference between Short and Long time.

A 20 year old sporty funny girl, a little shy, new in business, who can entertain you, good English, hot bedtime.

We headed to nice clubs Oscars, then Levels, Narx. Lot of fun, dancinfg and later hot time in my hotel at Soi 1.

It was great time, almost perfect).

So, my question and request for your advise, hopefully.

I am not newbie and will fall in love in Thailand with a bar or GoGo girl.

But my plan is to have as much as possible fun and nice time with her in 1 or 2 weeks as possible.

Of course not paying everyday 700 BF and 3000 .

Tomorrow I would go again to Butterfies.

The mamasan is very clever, They are checking in 1 sec if somebody wants a girl.

So, do you have some advise, how can I manage to have her for 1-2 week as less cost as possible.

What amount would you paid (Girl, Club?)

Maybe the one or the other have some experience like this.

Thanks in advance.

[EihTooms]

Was your success rate good at twisters? I had one really good girl from there, one bad one, and some in between.

Getting paid upfront, usually means the girl is going to be like my worst Twisters girl in that she does not really want to be penetrated/fucked and gives the stiff straight legs treatment, or alternatively girls have been experiencing customers, not paying what they were supposed to. We can't know if the girl deserved to be paid in full or not.

Crazy House had mamasans always asking for the full up front with new customers, but I never paid it. Some girls I have done regularly and not having any great reason to make up bullshit, have reported several customers, who just never intended to pay. They got the full sex and satisfactory service and then said sorry my wallet is empty. So customers wanting freebies or to pay a much lower amount than agreed does happen. They just rationalise it to themselves by deciding what they think they should pay, if any. It's not like the girl can call the police, to ask for payment. Plenty of guys exist that do regularly rip off the girls.

Obviously this is part of the reason why many MPs have changed to up front all in payment.

Has been known for bargirls to do a runner, having already received payment, so it is certainly not wise to pay in advance if don't know the girl in my view. Slightly irrelevant since I never paid in advance to bargirls, only to MPs.

My success rate at Twisters started out low after they first opened in terms of getting a girl to agree to my particular service requirements. 3-4 negotiations in a row that went nowhere. Then I suddenly began to get takers. 6-7 in a row who said yes in the bar and meant it. But my last few visits in the past year or so left me cold. I got a scam vibe I could not shake. I even ran into three new girls in a row who informed me they did not go barfine and only worked for Lady Drinks, true or not. This was before any discussion about what I required even if they did want me to pay the barfine and take them. Haven't tried again recently. Or felt a need to.

On the issue of girls telling you their sad tales of being ripped off by customers after giving them full sex and satisfactory service, I can't think of many times a P4P girl is not prepared to tell a sad tale about how their phone was stolen, the rent money lost by their irresponsible roomate, the mamasan being unfair and forcing them to quit that job, you name it. Especially if their telling you that sad tale might inspire you to be extra financially helpful in their time of need. LOL.

How about their first line of defense against being ripped off by customers despite delivering the goods as agreed upon be to choose their customers a little more wisely? Hell, P4P girls have never had a big problem choosing another customer over ME and I have never penalized or ripped off a girl on the money if she delivers or even just convincingly appears to be trying to deliver what she agreed to do in the bar.

Also, I'm trying to imagine just how this epidemic of rip off customers played out at the MPs that had to abandon their previous Pay After system in favor of a Pay Upfront system. Seriously, were there really that many dudes who had just gotten full sex and satisfactory service pulling up their pants in a mad rush, pushing the girl aside, dashing through the reception area past the cashier and mamasan, busting through the glass doors and racing down the soi in a frenzy so as not to be stopped by anyone along the way and asked for the cash?

How is it that I have never seen a customer leaving a MP that way in what by now must be thousands of times I have walked past Pay After MPs?

[LingBong]

Som's new location is around the bend from her original Sukhumvit Soi 14 location as you turn right from Sukhumvit onto Ratchadaphisek. Ratchadaphisek is what Asok becomes when it crosses Sukhumvit. So Som's new bar/shop would be essentally across the street from the Exchange Tower in that intersection, just past Sukhumvit, down a small driveway next to the little Asok Bar on Ratchadaphisek.

The new name of her bar/shop is Duangporn Massage or something like that. You will see some ladies sitting outside her shop on that small driveway. BTW, as you round the bend from Sukhumvit onto Ratchadaphisek, you will first encounter another massage shop with uniformed girls sitting outside. That is not Som's new place. Keep going around that bend until you get to the little Asok Bar. Turn right there.

Thanks for the update. I will check out the new location when there in March. It has been awhile since I had a real looker there. I try to go there a few times each trip. But the girls have always been fun and given great BBBJI get the offers for full service but have yet to take them upon it.

[Syzygies]

Wow, those Twisters girls must really be providing an inordinately high percentage of crap service to be so adamant about getting paid UPFRONT now. I've never paid a Thai go-go bargirl upfront and have taken a few from Twisters. But not in a while. And, sorry, guys, I just don't buy that bit about how the poor put upon go-go bargirls are insisting on getting paid UPFRONT nowadays because us meany customers aren't paying them the going rate after a perfectly acceptable romp.

Was your success rate good at twisters? I had one really good girl from there, one bad one, and some in between.

Getting paid upfront, usually means the girl is going to be like my worst Twisters girl in that she does not really want to be penetrated/fucked and gives the stiff straight legs treatment, or alternatively girls have been experiencing customers, not paying what they were supposed to. We can't know if the girl deserved to be paid in full or not.

Crazy House had mamasans always asking for the full up front with new customers, but I never paid it. Some girls I have done regularly and not having any great reason to make up bullshit, have reported several customers, who just never intended to pay. They got the full sex and satisfactory service and then said sorry my wallet is empty. So customers wanting freebies or to pay a much lower amount than agreed does happen. They just rationalise it to themselves by deciding what they think they should pay, if any. It's not like the girl can call the police, to ask for payment. Plenty of guys exist that do regularly rip off the girls.

Obviously this is part of the reason why many MPs have changed to up front all in payment.

Has been known for bargirls to do a runner, having already received payment, so it is certainly not wise to pay in advance if don't know the girl in my view. Slightly irrelevant since I never paid in advance to bargirls, only to MPs.

[Syzygies]

Anyway-- bottom line is, unless I'm really looking for the atmosphere of a go-go or watch a show, or want to hang out with a drink etc, Thermae has been much better in terms of quality, experience, and efficiency. I can be in and out of there in 10 minutes, at my hotel nearby in 5, and in bed by midnight, at a decent cost without a lot of up front work or chance of be&S (as in TF or apps) or the hassle at the go-gos.

Atmosphere? Its really foul in there, and the sound system is fairly rank. DJ was intolerable when I went there. This place really is a "shocker". Not sure there is anywhere I would rate as worse in Bangkok.

[Blanquiceleste]

Decided to check out Shock 39 to satisfy my CIS (no idea what this stands for, but I assume something to do with central asia) curiosity.

SNIP

Anyway-- bottom line is, unless I'm really looking for the atmosphere of a go-go or watch a show, or want to hang out with a drink etc, Thermae has been much better in terms of quality, experience, and efficiency. I can be in and out of there in 10 minutes, at my hotel nearby in 5, and in bed by midnight, at a decent cost without a lot of up front work or chance of be&S (as in TF or apps) or the hassle at the go-gos.

Commonwealth of Independent States. Also known as the "stans". Armenia, Belarus, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Moldova, Russia, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan, Ukraine, and Uzbekistan.

Nice report.